Once we were in darkness and we lived to please ourselves, but now we are a people in the light of the New Life. Ephesians 5:8-9.
We must not continue to live as we did, we must not even go there. Ephesians 5:11-12.
All of our thoughts, attitudes, manners must be to do what is good, right, honest and truthful and even to tell others that they are in the wrong, not worrying what it will cost us.